I was not talking to one of my friend due to some work load kinda reasons since two weeks or something(yeah I have some workload :P). But then I just called him to know whats happening in his life(and blah blah blah...). After saying all that crap like 'haan.. obviously you will be busy. Won't take out time to talk to friends.. etc etc.'.He suddenly said "For everyone we have replacement in our life"...(????)
Do we really have?? Is there a replacement for mom's care? Do we have replacement for father's affection? Do we have replacement for sisters or brothers with whom we fight and next day we forget about what all happened? Do we have replacement for our friends without whom we can't enjoy our life? Do we have replacement for person, we love and share all what our heart says??? Do we?
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wow. food for thought..
nope, v dont hav replacements ,,,, that is what I think...
every person in your life makes different impact on u and so, though you get different persons doing same role (like, sister,brother,friends...etc.) in your life, every one of them are different.
so, No replacements ....
there are no replacements...i agree wid amzee..
Really a food for thought
Food for discussion and food for ..watever.:p
It is the matter of dependency of urself on the person next to u.
There certainly are cases in which u can hav replacement.
But that is again matter of dependency..
My xperience:
i changed my company.
My colleagues changed. fr smdez i missed my old workplace, my boss ev1.
Soon i got new ppl and i got mixed with them n cud forget the old company.at least nw i dont miss them evryday.
Majhi aaji mhante: prem sahawasat asta..
but ufcorz, No replacement to the ones whom u depend alot.
watsay?
i think priyanka has taken tht comment of "We hav replacement for every1" in different way...
she moved from friends to parents n family..
there is no replacement for them, i agree...
but abt friends if we depend on them or if we need them, then there is no replacement for them...
but if u jst talk to person coz he/she is ur collegemate/colleague, u can find replacement for them easily coz those r not ur friends...
but still there r friends in life wich cant b replaced...
friends on wich we dont depend but we miss them when we move away... its not need, but we like to pass the time with them... we enjoy d time spent with them... we care 4 them... we hav feelings attached to them... if they r happy, tht makes us happy too... n if they r in trouble/sad, we feel d same...
i hav a thing to point here - how many of u still remember ur school friends specifically 1st,2nd grade friends...
very few right?... can b counted on fingers of 1 hand... but tht time we had very big group of friends.. hdnt we??
then wht abt other friends, havnt we found replacement for them...
@vaiiiii
see.... we have found new ppl to talk to, to share thots with... dat to up to might be some different level... we certainly have not replaced them! that is wat i think!!!!
pree,
we hav found new ppl to talk n share thoughts, but we forgot our old friends... we talk to new ppl often, but we dont talk to our old friends n if we talk, its very few times... :(
we miss our most precious treasure of our life, jst coz we keep looking for new1, even if we hav best in world... :)
n abt u... u cant even recognize ur classmate from college n talking abt school/college friends n their replacement :P :P :P ...
@ vaii..
i guess u hav completly missunderstood me...
its not abt the peopl we just know...
its abt them who are essential part of our life....
recognizing or not recognizing person who waas in ur class is not at all valid in this case!
hmmmm.......for anything thats even miniscully close ur heart.......replacement is a profanity.........for everything else.....substitutes are ready.
Amazing question!A question that would only come out of Object Oriented thinking :).To replace an object!....
To me I agree with Amz too and the Reason :
People are people! with a heart and soul. They leave fingerprints on you which are irreplaceable and not even duplicated. Be they friends ; family; or even acquaintances.
:) I wish to write a lot over this ...but some feelings are best not-expressed ;)
Hey pree, there is replacement for everything in the world(except for your parents). If you hadn't found a replacement for your old friends, you wouldn't have stayed back with your new friends.You would have gone back to stay with your old friends!!I feel it!!
@keerthi
That can be ur opinion....
But i surely don't 'feel' the same....
Is it?? :P
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